Tuesday, October 23, 2018

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Featuring for beginners:
*  General introduction of Peachtree
*  Set a Company Account
 *  Design Chart of Account
*  Posting into Petty Cashbook
*  Posting Bank Tellers
*  Raising of Customers invoice
*  Raising of Suppliers invoice
*  Posting of Receipt
*  Raising of journal
*  Changing of Accounting period
*  Report Generation
*  Trial balance
*  Income Statement
*  Balance Sheet


COURSE 1
*  General introduction of Peachtree
*  Creation and maintaining Company Chart of Account
*  Input beginning balance
*  Budget
*  Input inventory items
*  Input purchases and payments vouchers
*  Input sales and receipt
*  Creating vendors
*  Creating customers
*  Back up
*  Bank Reconciliation
*  Reports
COURSE 2
*  General introduction of Peachtree
*  Creation and maintaining Company Chart of Account
*  Input beginning balance
*  Budget
*  Input inventory items
*  Input purchases and payments vouchers
*  Input sales and receipt
*  Creating vendors
*  Creating customers
*  Back up
*  Bank Reconciliation
*  Reports
*  Payroll management
*  Report and form customisation
*  Logo insertion on invoice receipt and payslip
*  Password security
*  Multi user management
GENERAL TRAINING  COURSE OUTLINE  FOR  SAGE LINE  50
* General introduction of the software
*  Setting of company parameters and other default settings
*  Customer Module
*  Supplier Module
*  Nominal Module: Chart of Account, Processing of prepayment and accruals etc.
*  Bank Module: posting of bank payment and receipts; bank reconciliation etc.
*  Product Module
*  Invoicing Module
*  Sales Order Processing Module
*  Purchase Order Processing Module
*  Raising of journal
*  Changing of Accounting Period
*  Fixed Asset Register Module
*  Financial Module
*  Project Module
*  Running of Month End Routine
*  Taking of back up, Restoration, Corrections etc.
*  Report Format
*  Password Security
*  Question and Answer
*  Test
EXECUTIVE TRAINING  COURSE OUTLINE FOR SAGE PEACHTREE 
                        BY PATRIOT ODUNARO B.J. 
A.  COMMON ELEMENT OVERVIEW:
In this section, we look at elements that are common throughout the modules.
You set these initially when you create the company, and you may use some of these function overtime.
*  Accounting Periods
*  Editing Company Details
* Setting up of VAT and other Taxes.
* Projects (Jobs)
* Settlement Terms
* Bank Details
B.   GENERAL/NOMINAL LEDGER ACCOUNTS
The major element in the general ledger is the division of all activity into general ledger accounts. A general ledger account represents a particular business activity, such as a bank account, a sales account, an expenses account and so on.
*  Creation of Chart of Accounts
*  General Ledger Opening Balances
*  Creation and Processing of Cashbooks and Banks
*  Creations of Customers
*  Creation of Suppliers
C.   ACCOUNTS RECEIVABLES
You derive the income in your business from your customers. The accounts receivables modules let you manage your customers, and are therefore a vital part of your enterprise.
*  Account Receivables Set up Overview
*  Account Receivables defaults
*  Sales Representatives
*  Customer Opening Balance
D.   ACCOUNTS PAYABLE
The accounts payable modules let you manage Donor/ Grantor and is the vita part of non-profit organisation.
*  Account Payable Set up Overview
*  Account Payable defaults
* Purchases Representatives
*  Account Payable Opening Balance
E.   INVENTORY/ CONSUMABLES
You use the Inventory Controls and Order Entry Modules to:
* To create and maintain inventory items.
   * Purchase goods from suppliers. 
   * Sells goods to customers.
*  Inventory and Order Entry Set up Overview
*  Inventory and Order Entry
*  Inventory Grouping
*  Creating Delivery Methods, Packs and Units
*  Creating Inventory Items
*  Inventory Adjustments
*  Inventory Reports
F.   FIXED ASSETS AND REPORTS
You use the fixed assets/reports modules for:
*  Fixed Asset Set up
*  Maintaining and Depreciating Assets
*  Other Asset Enquiries and Reports
*  Deprecation Reports
*  Budgeting
*  Non-Profit Specific Operational Reports
*  Financial Statements
G.   PAYROLL  MANAGEMENT
You use the payroll module for:
*  Payroll Set up
*  Employee Set up
*  Payment Element
*  Payroll Run
H.  OTHERS EXECUTIVE BRIEF
*  Administrative Functions
*  Creating users and access rights
*  Export files to excess and other formats

Other Benefit:
-100% practical
-Conducive learn environment
-A person to a computer
-Free Material
-Competent Facilitators
 

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2018/2019 NNPC/TOTAL National Merit Scholarship Scheme


Call for Application
Total upstream Nigeria Limited (TUPNI) operator of the OML 130, in pursuance of it's Corporate Social Responsibility, invites applications from suitable qualified Nigerian Students to it's 2018/2019 NNPC/TOTAL National Merit Scholarship Scheme.
To qualify for consideration, an Applicant must
A. Be a registered Full-time undergraduate student in a recognized Nigerian University
B. Be a certified 100 or 200 level student at the time of this application
Please note:
The following categories of students need not apply
A. Students with less than 200 score in UTME
B. 200 level students with CGDP of less than 2.5 in a 5.0 grade system
C. 300 level students and above
D. Students who are current beneficiaries of similar awards from the industry
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This application opens today 9th Oct 2018 and closes 31 Oct 2018. Test will hold Sat Dec 1 2018 at designated centres Nationwide. Note that candidates shall bear the full cost of transportation to/from the selection test venue. Candidates are therefore advised to choose test center closest to them.

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*Final Part

Dad became sick again so much that he was stinking. Taking care of him was really a big sacrifice. We had no money to give him good care. The church tried their best but couldn't solve all our problems. I became a regular member in God's People Church where I gave my life to Christ. I don't miss their hour of visitation that usually take place every Friday.

Dad's health deteriorated so badly. Deliverance was conducted on me and the spirit husband left. But the pastor said my deliverance and that of my family will only be complete if my dad confesses all his atrocities. After my deliverance the spirit husband came into my dream to molest me like the other times but I resisted. He attempted raping me but we fought dirty and he sustained a big injury on his head and lost so much of blood. His men who used to be with him during other visits didn't come with this time. He laid down helpless and that was his last visit.

Pastor Rotkam began to visit dad to persuade him to confess his sins and be free but dad was adamant for months until he became blind and his heart was failing.

On the 16th December my dad ask me to invite Pastor Roktam and our pastor. I pleaded with Pastor Rotkam to please come and see my dad. He was reluctant because he seems to have lost hope on my dad and resolved that he will let my dad die in his sins since he refused to confess his sins. He finally agreed and a meeting date was agreed upon.

I am making this  confession not because I want God to heal me, but so that my family can be free from what I caused them as a result of my atrocities. Pastors please, I want more mothers to be invited to listen to my confession, my dad requested. Our pastor called the women leader of our church and within thirty minutes the room was filled to capacity.

First I want to plead for mercy from my beloved daughter, Adenike and her sisters for all I did to them. All that happened was caused by my wife. She placed her career above her family and left the care of the children to me. She was never available for us so I took over her role as a mother. I was my children's father and mother. My wife starved me of sex all through our thirty years of marriage. Sometimes we could stay for eight months without meeting each other as husband and wife. She said I have evil spirit and she doesn't want me to infect her with my evil spirit.

I found comfort in my children, the comfort I never find in my wife. They became the wife I never had and were so close to me. I threatened my wife with getting sexual satisfaction elsewhere if she will not give me and she gave me the go ahead and that was the beginning of evil in my family.

I have slept with all my daughters. I have aborted their pregnancies times severally except for Grace. I molested my daughters for over two decades and my wife was not aware. I did a charm on them to stop them from telling anyone about what I was doing to them. I know I may not live because the day I confesses, I will die, according to the juju man. I alsoooooo........, dad could not complete that statement when he was attacked with hiccup and gave up the ghost.

The women in the room could not hold back their tears. It was a festival of tears. Everyone in the room wept bitterly not because my dad passed on but for the emotional confession. God forgave us but every member of the family was left with a scar. Faith lost her womb, I was tested HIV positive, mum went into comma and became paralyzed partially, Christy dropped out of school and Grace died.

Look at what the sin of one man caused my family. Mothers who are reading my story should remember that they will face God one day to give account of their role as  mothers. Fathers, no matter how much you love your female children, know when to set the boundary. Ladies and children who are going through what I and my sisters went through, should speak up and be free. I may be HIV positive but I am free and happy especially with the hope of eternal life in Christ Jesus.

Thank you for reading

The End!

USELESS PARENT Title changed as suggested🤣🤣🤣-Episode Nine

Episode Nine

Faith’s womb was damaged because dad had done abortion for her three times. But how manage I didn’t know all these when it was happening right under my nose? If I accused mum of carelessness, I think I was more careless than her. How can my sister be pregnant for my dad three times without me knowing? She did three abortions and I was not aware? Adenike you’re very stupid and useless, I insulted myself.

I had sat down to weight the consequences of exposing dad and killing him. Killing him seems better. It will clean the mess and save the family name from shame and disgrace. Exposing him will drag the family name to the mud and lives everlasting stigma to our generation. The stain will haunt us all, our lives and our unborn children. Who knows if he had done it with Christy and Grace too? That will be the worst of the blow. Grace was gone but I can find out from Christy if she had been abused by dad too.

I was deep in this though when I slept off. In my brief sleep I had a long dream. In my dream, I sent thugs to kidnap my spirit husband who had been abusing me. They brought him into a thick forest where he was tied, hands and foot. The leader of the gang gave me a gun to shoot him. I took the gun and pulled the trigger and blew his head off. As soon as I killed him, some police officers surrounded us and took us away. We were thrown behind bars with serious torture. Still in my dream we were charged to court and when the court clerk called my case she said “I hereby call up the case between Miss Adenike Fowogbade and the state”. The judge looked into the file before him and looked at my face, Miss Adenike Fowogbade you were accused of the murder of Mr Temitayo Fowogbade on the 17th of September, are you guilty or not? I had not said a word when the judge pronounced his judgment.

Having been found guilty of this offense of murder you are hereby sentenced to death by……. That was the last thing I heard and the next I saw was that I was thrown into a dark bottomless pit and I was going down endlessly then I woke up. I was so frightened and my body was shaking uncontrollably for minutes. I became restless because I understood the dream. All messages I ever heard on hell fire flashed back in a jiffy.

I tried to pray but to pray but no single word came out of my mouth. I tried crying but my tears were held back. My knees were hitting each other. I lied on the floor for 25 minutes without knowing what to do. The earth was so empty as if rapture had taken place. I looked right and left nobody to talk to. I looked down, the fear of hell gripped me. So I decided to look up to God for help. I felt an invisible presence at my back saying “The prayer of a sinner is an abomination before God”. I picked my Bible but the pages were blank. O God have mercy on me! I know I had gone far away from you but please remember the blood of your Son, Jesus Christ. I wept in bitterness.

Terrible things happened in part 10.

USELESS PARENTS-Episode Ten


Episode Ten (10)

The fear and terror of hell made me suspend my plans to kill dad. As much as I wanted vengeance against him, the experience of hell I had in my dream was so scary and frightening. Hell is not a place to be for a minute talk more of eternity. I rather swallow the venom of vengeance than go to that terrible place. But why would someone I am related with or any human creature in God’s image consciously or unconsciously be the one to make me go to hell? Your end will be terrible and full of regrets.

The few minutes I spent in the bottomless pit cannot be described with man’s language. If you are reading this story I beg you never to go to hell. Some persons have sworn to take you to hell through the manipulation of their master the devil, please do not allow their plot to prevail over you. Please! Live a life that heaven would be happy with you for.

Faith’s womb was removed but mum never knew what the real problem was. After Fatih was discharged from the hospital, dad fell sick. He started losing his memory and his thoughts. He was transferred to the psychiatric hospital for more investigation. Dad spent two weeks at the psychiatric hospital before he was discharged. He began to gain his memory and thoughts back.

Our six months ultimatum given to us by our landlord will expire in some few weeks. He expects me to renew the rent like I did before, but it was late. I had made up my mind never to do evil again. I will keep my body for the Lord henceforth. I cannot see what I saw in my dream and continue living a careless life.

My refusal to warm his bed got him angry so much that he gave us seven days to move out as against three weeks left from the original arrangement. I was not bothered this time because I had rather sleep on the street than offer him my body again.

We began to plan to move out before the seven days elapsed but had no money anywhere to even pay for a two-room apartment. I will never go back to those men again neither will I allow anyone to use me for a price again. Our pastor was contemplating we bringing our loads into the old children hall in the church. Our burden was just too heavy for the church at this time. Our uncles all abandoned us like they never existed. Leaving our house will generate lots of embarrassment because of the debts we are owing in the neighbourhood.

We eventually moved our things to the old children hall in our Church. We also slept in the hall for two days before dad went to scout with his friend. Mum, myself and Faith put up with a church member. The frustrations and humiliations was unbearable but we had no option at the moment. I went to a program with a friend in their church and the pastor made an altar call for those who want to give their life to Christ. I was the first to walk out. The sermon was too powerful to resist a follow up call to give one’s life to Christ. I rededicated my life to Christ and my peace began to come back again.

CARELESS MOTHER-Episode Eight

Episode Eight (8)

Out of curiosity, I insisted I must know what was wrong with Faith since I was the major financier of her medical bills. No one was telling me until I stopped bringing money for anything. My mum reluctantly told me she did an abortion and it was not well managed and she had complications. As I talk to you now, your sister’s womb has to be removed to save her life. Immediately I heard this I went blank. After some minutes I asked mum if she revealed who impregnated her. No, shez said she doesn’t know who was responsible. Meanwhile the doctor advised we don’t bother her for now until she’s out of the hospital.

I was mad in my spirit, let it not be what I was thinking, I mustered some words to myself. Could it be that dad had also been sleeping with Faith without my knowledge? Faith is a decent girl and she has never told me she had a boyfriend. We talked a lot and I would have known if she was seeing any guy. My reaction got my mum worried but I couldn’t tell her what was going on in my mind. If daddy is responsible for Faith’s pregnancy, I will kill him and kill myself. I assured myself.

My heart was heavy and weak. Why are all these things happening to us alone? O God have mercy on Fowogbade’s family. Grace was gone, mum lost her job, Faith is laying helpless in the hospital, dad’s business had totally collapsed, landlord had given us ultimatum to leave the house, I have become a sex addict, everyone had abandoned us, eating regular food and living a good life is elusive, Christy is at home because of school fees. What is our offense? Why are all these things happening to us at the same time? Who did we offend? What happened to those prayers mum did for the family? God, are you in existence?

When I was left alone with Faith I hugged her passionately to my heart. Dear, I love you and you will live to testify of God’s goodness. I spoke many words of hope to her. Faith, I know who is responsible for your pregnancy! I said and looked straight into her eyes for a long time. Is he the one? She bent her head and tears rolled down uncontrollably. I looked at those tears and I saw betrayal, disappointment, dashed hope, hatred and unexpressed agony. Without a word, I understood those tears. They are tears that spoke volume more than words. Dad had been doing it with Faith too. But why will dad be this wicked? Why did dad wear the garment of an angel but a heart of a monster? We held ourselves for minutes as we both sob bitterly in each other’s arms. (this is a case of a dad’s involvement, there were instances where an elder brother subjected the younger sisters to sucking his penis until he cums. Hmmm, things are happening – story for another day. They knew it was wrong but couldn’t talk as kids, but today as adults, the whole childhood early experience has contributed to the hatred meted out to him.)

Faith narrated what she has been through in dad’s prison. I thought my case was pathetic but Faith’s own was more terrible. Faith spent two hours telling me how it all started. Dad started sleeping with Faith at age 11. A time she was yet to menstruate. He started by putting his finger in my pant, then he will tell me never to tell anybody. He told me he will kill me if I ever tell anybody. At a time, I couldn’t stand to hear the atrocities my dad had done to us. Mum was the genesis of our problems. She was never available for us when we needed her. Dad played the role of a father and a mother. Mum made dad’s life miserable because she saw him as an unbeliever. Dad never enjoyed mum’s intimacy hence he found solace in his daughter’s laps. If dad must die, mum should die first. I will take vengeance as I live, I promised myself. I can no longer wait for God’s judgment or the threats of my spirit husband. Their judgment is too slow.

CARELESS MOTHER-Episode Seven

Episode Seven (7)

Everything around my family went upside down. Grace fell ill and was diagnosed with a terrible heart condition that required an emergency surgical operation in India. The cost of transportation and medication were in thousands of dollars. Dad had no money anywhere because his business had practically stopped. Mum had to empty her account and borrow more money to fund Grace’s medical bills.

Grace and mum fled to India for the surgery. Everything was not as planned. The surgery was not successful, so they had to stay three extra weeks to carry out another operation. Mum’s leave elapsed and she couldn’t come back from India because of the three weeks extra they needed to stay back for another operation. After series of operations to save Grace’s life, she died while in India. It was a tough time for the family. Mum came back without Grace. Her job was at stake but she has huge loan in the office to offset. On her arrival she couldn’t resume work immediately until after one week. Mum would have gone back to work on Tuesday if not for our pastor who insisted she needed to stay back at home to mourn her daughter. While at home, mum could be on a call for hours.

Mum’s position was given to another person before she resumed. She was moved to the cash department as the cash officer while Mr. Paul was made the new branch manager. These new developments really brought darkness to Fowogbade’s family. My pursuit for admission was put on hold. Christy had to drop from school because of accumulated unpaid school fees. Faith had few months to write WAEC so her fee was paramount. Everywhere we turned to for help, there wasn’t any. Three days for Faith to start her WAEC she took ill and was rushed to the hospital. It was like hell was let loose on Fowogbade’s family. From one calamity to the other.

As if that was not enough. Mum lost her job. A job she held in high esteem. All the bank did, was to let her finish her loan before sacking her. The blow was too much. I had to engage in mini prostitution to help raise money for Faith’s medical bills. I slept with any man who could give me money. Our former vice principal became my main client. At a time, he gave me just a thousand naira after a round of sex. It was this bad. My parent knew I was not working but they had no effrontery to ask where the money was coming from.

I was much afraid of nemesis catching up with me some day, considering the number of men I had unprotected sex with. The threats and assaults from my spirit husband kept me in fear. Even when I was sick, I couldn’t talk to anyone about it in order not to compound my family’s problem. We began to live a beggarly life. The church was our lifeline. Dad had sold everything we had just to keep us going. Faith had practically missed her WAEC that year. Everything was against us. My tears of agony and pain. Our landlord was the only one who seems to understand with us. But his understanding did not last for eternity. He came pleading that we should forget the outstanding and just vacate his house in three months. The man is kind hearted but he needed to make this decision to recover his property. I had to sleep with our landlord five times for him to extend our stay for another six months. My parent were not aware of what I did that made the landlord give us six months extension.

I will tell you what happened to Faith in part 8.

CARELESS MOTHER-Episode Six

Episode Six

It became a regular occurrence that my dad regularly took advantage of me. He does it almost every night. His act exposed me to spirit husband. That man will always come to molest me in the dream. My dad will do his physically, while the man will do his own spiritually. In no time, I lost the will to resist my dad. He destroyed my self esteem and pride. My academic performance started dropping. My position in class moved from 2nd and 3rd to 37th. I began to lose interest in my studies; my mind was clouded with sexual filthiness. At seventeen, I had turned to a sex addict. My dad could no longer meet my sexual needs so I arrange for my school boys and teachers to have sex with me when the urge comes.

I was caught with Ahmed having sex in the toilet and the matter was reported to the vice principal. He invited both of us to his office to investigate the matter but he was caught in the web of the seducing spirit in me. I slept with him three times and the case was closed. When the urge comes upon me, I can sleep with any guy available. It was time to write WAEC and my vice principal had assured me of success if I continued giving him sex. I grabbed the opportunity and made use of it to clear all my papers. I didn't bother to read my books because the vice principal had arranged everything in my favour. When our result came out, I had distinction in all my papers.

Mum was happy about my result and began to persuade my dad to let them send me abroad for my university education. My dad and mum began another quarrel over my university education. My dad's business had almost collapse so he only managed to feed us. Mum was the one responsible for our school fees and other major family bills.

On the 8th of March, I was feverish so I went to the nearest chemist in our neighbourhood to get some drugs for myself. After taking the drugs, I wasn't getting better then I decided to go to Oxford clinic to run some tests. "Young lady, you are six weeks pregnant," the lab attendant announced to me as he hands the tests result to me. I collected it without saying a word. When I got home I dropped the test result on dad's bed and locked up the room so my sisters won't barge into his room and see the result. Dad hardly lock his room, so he was surprised when he came back and found his room locked. He looked at me and Grace who were both in the living room when he arrived but I pretended I didn't notice him. He seems to understand there must be something fishing, so he removed his key and opened the door. Five minutes later he rushed out and invited me to his room. What is the meaning of this? He pointed the test result to me. I was angry and felt like slapping him. How can he ask me the meaning of the test result in his hand. Did he not know that having unprotected sex, would result to pregnancy? I looked at him with disdain.

"Nobody must hear this, let it be between me and you", my dad pleaded. We will get rid of it before anyone notice it. He did not allow me go out for one week until he came with a taxi driver that morning. He drove us for a long journey. He took me to a small hospital between Lagos and Ogun state. A place very difficult to find anybody who knew us. An abortion was carried out on me. My first sexual encounter was with my dad, my first pregnancy was for my dad, my first abortion was by my dad.

It wasn't easy hiding my affairs with dad from my siblings again. They became so curious and suspicious. They asked me many questions I had no answer to. I was running out of my mind after the abortion. My spirit husband will also not give me breathing space. He used me every night with serious beating after having sex with me in the dream. One day I asked him, "Why do you always beat me after having sex with me?" "You are a cheat, you have been giving others what belongs to me. If you don't stop sleeping with your father, I will kill him one day", he replied. Intentionally, I continued to have sex with my dad so the spirit man can kill him. I want to be free from him. I want his death desperately to be free from his prison. My loving dad is now a heartless man.

Getting admission into the higher institution became very difficult. Since the spirit man had been having sex with me, nothing was moving for me and dad anymore. Everything I did always end up in failure.

CARELESS MOTHER-Episode Five

Episode Five

Mum could not fulfil her promise to come home every weekend. Some months, she only came once and sometimes twice. I became hostile in the house and everyone knew something was wrong but no one among my sisters was matured enough to investigate further.

I perfected my plans to poison my dad but that was not easy. On two occasions, I had planned to put the poison in his food but I will discard it again. Seeing him got me irritated. I wished he could die of accident or one mysterious thing but none of these happened.

For three months, I rarely talk to my dad even though we lived under the same roof with me. All the time mum visited, she never suspected anything because I put up pretentious attitudes that looked like all was well. I will enter my shell again as soon as she returns back to Ibadan.

My dad became depressed because of the happenings around. Nike that used to be his close friend became his arch enemy. My sisters started withdrawing from him because they saw me withdrew too. My dad became an addicted drunkard. He started going to club houses just to suppress his depression. I pitied him and talk to him casually. Life returned back to him and he began to pick up again. But our relationship had gone sour. He was buying me different gifts just to pacify me but all that was nothing. My desire to take his life got stronger by the day. I was loosing concentration in school because of what my dad did to me.

On Sunday, our pastor gave a powerful sermon on "forgiveness". He highlighted seven reasons why forgiveness will do you good than whom you are forgiving. The sermon was so touching that I had no option than to drop my murderous plan. Pastor made an altar call for those who need grace to forgive those who had hurt them. I jumped out and he prayed for us. The prayer was like lifting a heavy rock off my chest. I became light and free. I wish I could die that moment and just go to heaven straight to rest from the trouble of this world. I got home that day and prepared my dad's favourite food just to communicate my forgiveness to him. Nike, I am grateful you have forgiven me; he held my hand as I served him his food to whisper to my ear.

On Monday, my dad bought me a big phone he ordered from the UK. He knew how much I desired to own a phone but mum will not allow him buy me one. This girl is too young to own a phone, mum had warned dad several times. If you buy her a phone I will smash it on the floor, mum threatened. She insisted none of us will own a phone until we are eighteen. But all my friends in school have phones yet they concentrated on their studies. It was never a distraction like mum painted. I loved the phone dad bought for me because all my friends in school who had intimidated me with theirs began to respect me when they saw mine.

I was enjoying my phone for three months and mum didn't know I own a phone. When she's around I put it off, remove the battery and hide it all through until she had gone.

As I was gaining my dad's confidence, he struck again. This time he drugged me and raped me. In my sleep I had a dream a man came and force himself into me. He beat me up after he raped me and warned me never to tell anybody again or else he will kill me with his machete. In the dream, I cried in pain until I woke up and noticed the pain all over my body. I couldn't lift my hands nor legs. My dad did it again!

CARELESS MOTHER-Episode Four


Episode Four

Mum was promoted to the position of a Branch Manager and was transferred to Ibadan to head a new branch. This was what she had worked for all these years. Becoming a Branch Manager was her utmost dream for many years. Mum was so happy with her new position but the transfer did not go well with dad and all of us. She never gave dad opportunity to protest her transfer when she started making out her plans. Within two weeks, mum had contacted an agent in Ibadan through a colleague who got her a two bedroom flat in the outskirts of Ibadan. When mum left for Ibadan I knew it was a journey to marital desolation for dad.

"I don't want to say anything because you may think I don't want your progress but leaving your family at this time is not healthy", my dad protested. "So what should I have done? Resign the job or reject the offer? The position I have laboured for all through the years? This is God's open door and I can't afford to throw it away. Instead of you to rejoice with me, you are here talking about family. All our children are all grown and Nike can take care of her sisters well. I will always come home for weekend." My mum replied as she ordered Faith and Christy to move her things into the waiting van outside. We are surely not going to miss mum because her temporary exit from the house will give us a level of freedom and peace. We will be free from her nagging and troubles.

That night mum left for Ibadan, my dad came into my room like the other time. From his eyes you could see lust and determination to get what he wanted. "Please daddy, don't do this to me. I thought you said you love me? Why will you be the one to take away my virginity? Please daddy! Please daddy!! Please daddy!!!" All my begging fell on deaf ears as my dad forced himself into me. It was really painful going through this evil act. He left my room without saying a word to me after he stole my virginity. My love for my dad disappeared like a vapour. My love for him turned to hatred immediately. My loving dad became a rapist, the man I trusted all my life became a beast and a terror. My tears was thick and I could hear the loud sound they made when they dropped to the ground.

Three hours later, he came knocking at my door. His voice that was once a balm to my soul suddenly turned to a terrific sound. The fear that griped me when I heard his voice behind the door was frightening. "I am sorry Nike, I am sure you know daddy loves you. Please open the door, I have a surprise for you." If I had a knife in my room that day, I would have committed murder. I would stab him and stab myself. I sobbed bitterly all through the night. I didn't come out for three days even when my sisters came knocking. I could see the worries on my sisters and I didn't want them to do anything stupid, so I opened the door on the third day.

Who would you blame, my dad or my mum? The nightmare of what my dad did to me began to trail me. My sisters tried all they could to find out what happened to me but how can I tell my sisters my father took my virginity by force? It is sacrilege and abomination in Yoruba land for a father to have canal knowledge of his own biological daughter. I knew what his act will cost the family but I can't talk to anybody about it. I can't manage the shame and mockery. The thought to poison my dad began to find its way into my mind. I will kill him and free myself of the trauma of his presence.

What else should I have done?

PERHAPS, WE COULD ALL LEARN ONE OR TWO LESSONS FROM THIS:

Sometimes ago, I'd a heated disagreement with my neighbor.

He placed his generator just at the back of my window.
There were a lot of smokes getting in and the sound won't just let my baby sleep.

So I approached him.
I told him about the hazardous smoke that comes in and that it's possible to find another suitable place just nearby that would be okay.
He got angry.
His wife flared up.
I was surprised to his lack of not being able to reason with what I was saying.
He insisted on not moving his generator.

It wasn't convenient each time they put it on.

"You're not considerate.
"You're not a good person" I told him.

Those words were too much, but I was angry too.

I rang the landlord.
I informed him.
He doesn't stay around.
He promised to call him.

Two weeks on, nothing changed.
I felt very unhappy.
I would always close my window even if the weather is hot.
My baby sweats a lot.
Then I had no generator.
Power Holders wasn't helping too.
So we kept managing.

One night, it was on Friday.
Very late.
I perceived an unpleasant smell coming towards my room shortly after the PHCN restored light, so I got out.
I traced it.

I realized it was coming from my neighbor's apartment.
The one next to mine that we both had a disagreement.

I stood for a minute or thereabout.

 "This people are not friendly; let me go back," I said inaudibly.

I turned back.
Of course why should I even be surprised that they could allow such an offensive smell come out of their space.

"Dirty people!"

I locked my window.

But the smell persisted even more.

I got worried.
I approached their doorstep and knocked with my index finger.

Such one you do so that no one will accuse you of wanting to break down their door.

No reply.
I hit harder and harder.
No reply still.

I went straight to the window of their room to peep through.

No one was home.

I saw a little flame.
A plugged pressing iron faced to the mattress.

I quickly ran to the central switch and put off the light.

I alert another tenant.
We have just four apartment.
We broke in.

In there was my neighbor's two kids and one of their young relative staying with them all asleep.

We took them out.
We subdued the fire.
It has just started.
But there were smokes in the room already.

At a time, we all collected each other's phone number after one of the tenant's meeting.

I rang my neighbor.
No response.
And again, still no response.
And again, "switched off"

Apparently, he didn't want to speak with me.

The kids said they'd gone to church, which I guessed to be vigil.

I accommodated those kids and the young girl.

Very early next day, he and his wife returned only to find their apartment opened and messy.

He asked one of the neighbors, who told him what happened.

He knocked on my door.
I opened.
He hugged me.
"E se Daddy Desire!"
Meaning Thank you!
And the wife was full of thanks.

That was how he looked for a far away open place to put his generator and he didn't only do that, he asked if I don't mind connecting with him.

Because I have a clear mind after what'd happen, I said "okay"
He gladly gave us light.

And afterwards, there was a time I traveled to Abuja, and my wife wasn't feeling okay.
He took her to the hospital
And took care of the bills.
I was only told after she returned.
I asked my wife how much the bill was...

I met with him.
I made it known that I am very grateful.
I offered him the cash.
He refused it.

"You are a good man sir.
"Thank you," he said.

In life, we need to be the example of how we want others to live and should live.
We need to show what we expect back from them.

A lot don't see life the way you see it.
The world is so unfriendly and also, the people who live in it.
But when you have your chance to prove that you are not one of them, prove it.
Because the chance will always come.

Regardless of whatsoever might have happened.
Don't take it to the heart.
Put it in your hand.
Why?!
Because, soon it will slip off and you will forget.
That way you won't pay evil with evil.

Try not to hold grudges that will make you not to be merciful so as to help your enemies; when you are the only one who is in the position to.

Yes!
There're people who just find joy to frustrate you, but don't do likewise.

Nevertheless, be careful not to play Mr Righteous, because you may greatly regret it.
Don't create the chance to prove yourself.
Wait for the chance.

The chance will come.
They will need your help either directly or indirectly.

But, make sure you pay evil with good.

👉BALANCE SHEET Of LIFE

"Accounting is the only Profession practised on earth and in heaven" "Account for all your actions on earth and account for same in heaven". 
Now look at this 👉BALANCE SHEET Of LIFE

            Birth is your
          Opening Stock.
                 
       What comes to you
                   is
                Credit.
                 
    What goes from you
                   is
               Debit.

     Your ideas are your
               Assets.

     Your bad habits are 
                 your
           Liabilities.

         Your character is
                 your
              Capital

       Your happiness is
                your
              Profit.

     Your sorrow is your
                Loss.

    Your knowledge is
             your
        Investment

      Your age is your
        Depreciation.

           Death is your
         Closing Stock.
         
    And finally :
    GOD IS YOUR AUDITOR
.
Always endeavor to have a perfect  Balance Sheet because your AUDITOR will come back sooner than later.  Keep your books correctly.✍.



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